God has a purpose behind every problem
He uses circumstances to develop our character and make us more like Jesus
God's ultimate purpose in our life is not to give us an easy life but to transform us into the image of Jesus
As it says in 2 Corinthians 3 v 18
And that doesn't come easy or with a comfortable life.
So don't view your problems as a negative thing
But ask the question - what is God trying to shape or develop in me through this situation
And then respond rather than resist